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I recently had to write an article for another publication looking at a new movement, centred in Argentina and labelled on social media ‘NiUnaMenos’ (‘NotOneLess’), calling for an end to violence against women.
Many of the protesters involved in this have spoken about how they believe that many men see women as mere objects, nothing more, with this being one of the root causes of male violence towards them. And considering the statistics that are available on this crime, it would seem that it is a particular problem in Latin America.
There are many facets to it, of course, education and culture being perhaps two of the main areas where changes are needed in order to turn the tide.
Having been a keen observer of the latest Copa América, the build-up to each match, on Colombian TV anyway, has mostly consisted of shots of the prettiest women in the stands, at times in slow motion, while the presenters/commentators chat, unseen, about the upcoming game.
Now, in theory, there’s nothing inherently wrong with this; and it’s not like the women pictured are up in arms (well in a negative, metaphorical sense that is) about it.
The question it poses, however, is does such behaviour reinforce the idea of ‘women as objects’? It shouldn’t really, but maybe it does.
Now it can also be said that there is nothing wrong with admiring the beauty of women, it’s natural. What’s more, it doesn’t take a man behind a TV camera to give us suggestive views of women. A quick glance through Facebook or Instagram pictures of those of the opposite sex and you’ll see a good number do it themselves; the provocative selfie in the bathroom or bedroom mirror is a favourite for many Colombianas in any case. As a man it can be difficult not to have a second look.
There is, though, and you’d like to think this is obvious to most, a difference between admiring the beauty of a person and treating them as an object or sub-human. For some men, however, crossing that divide may not be such an obstacle.
Looking at a lot of men’s treatment of women in these parts from a northern European perspective, you certainly notice more, outwardly anyway, male chauvinism at play. But you have to balance that out with, as mentioned above, how some women ‘market’ themselves here.
The bottom line is, the much sought after gender equality may be impossible from a natural, genetic standpoint, but that, needless to say, doesn’t open the door for macho violence.
For sure, the causes of domestic disputes, one of the main areas where violence against women arises, are rarely black-and-white. But violent aggression seldom solves anything.
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it’s a phenomena here in latin america, because as you said, there’s objetification of womens like everywhere in the world. I don’t know, but here in colombia and as well in mexico (feminicides as you may know) mans are merely based in the “if you aren’t mine you deserve to die” mindset. Maybe it’s the macho latino thought. who knows.
But it’s kinda sad, that in other countries treat latinas in the same way ‘cuz “they are already used to be treated like that”. I have seen cases like that and makes my wonder about my future as grown up woman :S
(sorry for my bad english it’s kinda rusted :p)
I hear you Natalia!
Now it could be argued that many Latinas display more of their feminine (dare I say ‘needy’) side than some of their western counterparts. For one, the culture where the man pays for everything on dates is still quite popular in these parts (here’s a link to a piece from a few years back related to that: http://bit.ly/MtWh7T).
The bottom line for me really is, as mentioned in the piece, is that admiring the beauty of women is great. But we men (and also some women) have to realise that there’s more to it — or at least should me more to it — than just that.